How
does one stay true to themselves, their culture, and race without being soaked
into the world that is in front of them? Someone once told me don’t forget
where you came from, the battles you’ve fought through are the ones that have
left you scars that mark you who you are. There is a struggle that comes with
blossoming into what you’ve always wanted to be, but not conforming to what
you’ve become. There is a difference with adjusting to what’s around you than
being transmuted into something else.
In
a passage from the novel, The Souls of Black Folks, by W.E.B Du Bois, Du Bois
speaks about the struggle African Americans go through with remaining true to
themselves and embracing their history and race, but still being accepted just
any American living in America would. Du Bois wrote “He would not Africanize
America, for America has too much to teach the world and Africa. He would not
bleach his Negro soul in a flood of white Americanism, for he knows that Negro
blood has a message for the world.” To learn from America is what Negros was
willing to do, not to change anything about it. But simply adjust to this
lifestyle and learn from other races and cultures. African Americans were
willing to take in what America had to offer without having to Americanize
themselves. They wanted to stay true to their history which tainted who they
are. They knew that to convert into something else would be a deprivation to
Americans because we could assimilate from they’re struggle and story. There
was a time in my life where it became a battle within me to stay grounded and
not forget who I am. I grew up with the Dominican side of my family and had
that culture instilled in me. I started to lose a sense of who I was my junior
high school years. Going to a catholic school I was quick to embrace my Italian
side and the small percentage of me that was white to conform to others around
me instead of embracing the culture I grew up surrounded by. I was somewhat
embarrassed of being Dominican. At the time I didn’t understand what a
beautiful thing it was to embrace who I am without changing myself.
It’s a meritorious feeling to live
in a diverse world. You learn so much from what another person’s background has
to offer. You don’t have to mold yourself into what’s around you. You can take
so much from someone else’s experience and give back from yours. In this point
in time diversity should be everything to all of us.
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